For A Good Time…
No, not that kind of good time. I’ve been waiting for a good time to resume blogging. Last year was an emotional roller coaster and, to deal with it all, I pulled back. All of those challenges have since resolved. So, what’s taking me so long to get back my blogging chops?
Maybe I needed processing time. Maybe I was tender and needed space. But we were returning to “normal.” It wasn’t a bad winter. We tend to hole up in front of the fire during the winter—read, and maybe write. I made excuses along the way. My computer died. It’s an ordeal to get a new computer, and to find technical help in recovering the things that were lost. Then the camera died. Fully, initially, and now it’s sort of limping along. That camera must be 20 years old, so I shouldn’t be surprised. Somehow, neither of us is up to the research needed to get a new one. After all, things don’t last like they used to, one should be up for these occasional challenges. The world has changed since Rick bought the old camera; most people just use their phones. We don’t have that kind of phone. We are landline folk. No pics, no texts.
Post Covid has also brought interesting reflections. We’ve become private. Not hermits, exactly, but guarded about contact with the world. I’ve come to resent a little the imposition of normal things—like grocery shopping and errands. Let’s face it, the outside world has been more than a little crazy over the past few years. We live in times when some shrug at an armed attack in the halls of our government—or at a Keystone Cops attempt to kidnap our Governor. What’s up with that?
We have some big projects planned this spring, two sheds to build and a doubling of the raised beds in the garden. We’ve been thinking of it as making up for last year’s torpor.
So, I’ve been waiting for a good time to start up the blog. The usual rites of Spring offered promise, tree-planting, early season prepping for the garden. I even found myself “blogging in my head” a bit, as we worked to put in the season’s crop of trees. We bought 103 trees this year, all of which are getting “the full spa treatment,” that is, planted with all the extra measures we give to orchard trees. We’ve never planted so many trees in one year that required all the extras. We were even using a new auger on the tractor. So far we have 59 trees planted—with many interruptions for weird weather. We’re worn a little thin with it all, but excited at the same time.
Friday night, one of the cats brought in a mouse. This happens from time to time, especially in the Spring. We jump to it, to either capture (and release it) or to dispatch it. There’s an accustomed frenzy in it, usually not a big deal. Rick was in high form, after some initial chase, he herded it to the basement steps. In hot pursuit and stocking feet, he flew down the steps, feet slipping out from him halfway down, and completing the flight on his back and side. Just the sound of it confirmed that we were talking about injuries. Still, he declined the expected ER visit, and curled up in bed to nurse his pride.
The weekend was difficult. By Monday it was clear that, at least, x-rays were in order. A trip to Urgent Care confirmed my concerns, in spades. Four broken ribs. The Doc was amazed that it took us days to come in. When he heard that the fall was about a mouse on the stairs, he offered advice, “You should get a cat.”
We’re rethinking our summer schedule. Rick is in rough shape and has weeks before he can consider projects. I still have trees yet to get in the ground. And, if I was looking for a good time to resume blogging, the truth is, there isn’t a good time. There’s just what is.
You’ve come to mind, numerous times the past several months, so it was (is) good to catch up w/ you just a little. DM
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Oh my goodness, I am sorry to hear (but happy to read your blog post)… I wish Rick well. It wasn’t long ago when my now ex partner threw his back out which caused a significant shift in how things run at the height of hockey season, and that was before everyone (except me) got covid which is a whole other chapter.. (we’re all fine, over it, almost not worth mentionable, but it still included isolation which affects everyone).
I appreciate you writing what you ‘wrote in your head’. I enjoy your writing style. May you find ways to get back to it regardless.
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Amazing–go away for a couple of months and everything changes. I’ll have to deep mine your blog to get the full story!
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I can give you the short version if you want. I think I still have your email.
Take care of yourselves out there !
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Yes, send me the short version–though I can tell you in advance, I won’t be surprised (though it is a shock to me how many have succumbed to Covid–I must really be a hermit.)
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There’s a short version paragraph in today’s post. 🙂
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I hear you on the hermit thing – I’m guilty of that. Mind you intend to be one anyway, but now I don’t need to justify it. Trips to town are pretty short and I’ve even less patience than usual. Avoiding news/social media like the plague it is.
We used to have a cat that was allowed in the house (I’m allergic so the rest make do wherever they like). She was an awesome mouser – but the rule was she wasn’t to bring outside catches into the house. Took some doing – many a night I found myself staggering out of bed to toss her and her mouse back out the window.
I hope your hubby heals well – ribs are tough. My hubby is a walking poster boy for what ‘not’ to do…I keep reminding him the older he gets the less he will bounce back up. Of course he doesn’t listen 🙄
Good to hear from you! I too was wondering how things were going – I’m used to you blogging fairly regular compared to me. I did post some weeks ago – we had a fire. Still trying to wrap my head around it, but definitely have our work cut out for us trying to at least rebuild something. It’s going to be a hard summer.
Sorry your computer packed it in – mine’s getting old enough my daughter bought me an external hard drive with an order to use it. I’m lost when it comes to buying new tech. Hope your summer goes well!
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A fire! Oh my. I think it’s everyone’s secret fear. I can’t even wrap my head around the idea of it. I didn’t keep up on reading posts–felt too guilty, if I wasn’t participating. Now I’m shocked at the changes. Folks with fires, divorces, and oh so many cases of Covid.
Ribs are tough–especially when you break multiples. My ex once broke four ribs skiing–he was a mess, for months (and then addicted.) And a few years back I kept breaking ribs–three one time, two, and then a final one. Turned out to be issues with our well! So I know too well the troubles with a destabilized rib cage. It’s starting to register for Rick, just how debilitating this will be–though there is the promise of healing.
Advice on the aging computer–make sure you’re backed up! I didn’t lose too much–and I did find a computer angel who recovered two lost chapters. But it’s a pain to have to rebuild it all. –Now I’m off to find your post and learn about the fire!
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I found your earlier post on the fire. Damn, woman, that’s one hell of a way to streamline one’s golden years. So. Many. Losses. And the shock of the close call. My God, your home was mere feet from the inferno! I hope that the two of you are sorting it out–and hugging each other in full recognition that what’s important is within that embrace.
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I am sorry to hear about Rick’s accident. Anything that keeps you on a short leash is very hard to bear when you have a garden and you two do not do things by halves. I think the Covid confinement has altered our usual behaviour patterns and it is difficult to get back again. I think I slowed down and took longer to do things as I had less outside activities. This spring we are rushing to keep up but it feels good. Think about the new camera before you buy anything too automatic if you are used to manual controls, Kourosh has an automatic type that I would not want. I prefer a SLR but one with automatic focus and light meter. It might be worth considering a second hand old fashioned type with a quality lens or two. Amelia
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That’s what Rick’s been saying about the camera. I wear progressive lenses, and so tend towards some of the more automatic features. (I have a hard time focusing, unless I take the eyeglasses off entirely!) There won’t be anymore rushing for us this spring, but in a few weeks we’ll get back to it. We are at our most content when we are productive. It is always a pleasure to see what’s blooming in your neck of the woods–you’re so far ahead of us that it’s a welcome preview of the season to come.
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Socks on steps–been there, done that. My in-laws have stairs in their house and once I was walking down them and ended up crash landing into the a Christmas tree at the bottom. Hoping Rick a full and speedy recovery
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